Some of the things I love:
There’s something incredibly charming about a gentleman who knows how to spoil a lady, right? It’s that perfect balance of thoughtfulness and luxury that makes us feel truly taken care of. And honestly, who wouldn’t want to be treated like that now and then? It’s the little things that make it all feel extra special... so, just in case you’re wondering what might catch my eye, please find below an up-to-date list of my desires…
Cash is King
You can easily and discreetly send me a tip (and other items too) here. Bank transfer is also an option, or cash in person when we meet.
NEW!
I’ve been eyeing a wellness retreat in Greece for summer 2025, priced at €6500. I’d greatly appreciate any full or partial contributions towards this!
Shopping gift cards
Spa gift cards
My email address to receive gift cards is arabellablairxo@protonmail.com
Most wanted items
As Maslow so wisely pointed out in his “Hierarchy of Needs”, shelter —aka the security and safety of a home—is one of the most basic human needs. Right now, I'm saving up (fingers crossed) to buy my own place, which, let's face it, feels like a distant dream for so many in the newer generations. That being said, the most appreciated gift would be a contribution to this goal—whether it's a cash gift in person or a sweet bank transfer.
But I totally get it—some of you might want to gift me something you can actually see on me. After all, men are visual creatures, right? So, for those who prefer to spoil me with something a little more... wearable, I’ve put together a list of my most-wanted items.
Hermès Birkin or Kelly or Kelly Pochette bag in Vert D’Eau Matte Alligator
Hermès Faubourg Birkin bag
Panthère de Cartier diamond paved watch: small or mini model
Hermès Kelly bag 25 or 28 in Epsom or exotic leather
Hermès Birkin bag 25 or 30 in Epsom or exotic leather
Hermès Kelly Pochette bag in exotic leather
Lady-Datejust Rolex watch in yellow gold | President or Jubilee bracelet | green, mother-of-pearl or gold dial | gem-set hour markers
Van Cleef & Arpels Alhambra necklace, 10 motifs, 18K white gold, diamond
Van Cleef & Arpels Alhambra necklace, 10 motifs, 18K yellow gold
Do you want to gift me something, but you don’t like any of the above? It’s always fun to go shopping and get something together!
While gifts are always appreciated, they are never expected, I simply compiled this small list as I often get asked for gifts guidance.
