Some of the things I love:

Cash is King

You can easily and discreetly send me a tip (and other items too) here. Bank transfer is also an option, or cash in person when we meet.

NEW!

I’ve been eyeing a wellness retreat in Greece for summer 2025, priced at €6500. I’d greatly appreciate any full or partial contributions towards this!

Shopping gift cards

Selfridges

Spa gift cards

Raffles at The OWO Spa

Aman Spa

Treatwell

My email address to receive gift cards is arabellablairxo@protonmail.com

Most wanted items

As Maslow rightly points out in his “Hierarchy of Needs”, shelter - referred to as the security and safety of a home - is one of the most basic needs for human survival. I am currently saving up to (hopefully, one day) buy a house. This is a basic human need which, sadly, is completely out of reach for the new generations. This being said, the most appreciated gift is a contribution towards this goal in the form of either a cash gift in person or a bank transfer.

However, as men are visual beings by nature, I understand that some of you might want to get me a gift that you can see on me. For this reason, I have compiled this list of most wanted items.

Hermès Birkin or Kelly or Kelly Pochette bag in Vert D’Eau Matte Alligator

Hermès Faubourg Birkin bag

Panthère de Cartier diamond paved watch: small or mini model

Hermès Kelly bag 25 or 28 in Epsom or exotic leather

Hermès Birkin bag 25 or 30 in Epsom or exotic leather

Hermès Kelly Pochette bag in exotic leather

Lady-Datejust Rolex watch in yellow gold | President or Jubilee bracelet | green, mother-of-pearl or gold dial | gem-set hour markers

Van Cleef & Arpels Alhambra necklace, 10 motifs, 18K white gold, diamond

Van Cleef & Arpels Alhambra necklace, 10 motifs, 18K yellow gold

 

Do you want to gift me something, but you don’t like any of the above? It’s always fun to go shopping and get something together!

 

While gifts are always appreciated, they are never expected, I simply compiled this small list as I often get asked for gifts guidance.